Entering Under the Roof of Our God Who is Love

Entering Under the Roof of Our God Who is Love


Here is a link to the readings for this weekend.

Recently, I met a young Irishman and a young Englishman who are in the United States on an exchange program to coach soccer to our country’s youth. I always enjoy welcoming new people to the country and hearing their stories. I asked where they were staying while they are here, and the Irish lad replied in his brogue, “With a host family. I don’t know how they find host families for us.” He began to crack a smile, “Who would want an Irishman and an Englishman living under their roof? I don’t even want an Irishman and an Englishman living under my roof, and I’m an Irishman!” Oh, the shenanigans that host family is in store for!

What a privilege it is to be welcomed into somebody’s home. It is a sign of welcome and trust. Think of bringing a girlfriend or a boyfriend home to meet the family for the first time. Being welcomed into the house is more than just coming under someone’s roof, it is entering into their family. There is a new bond that is forming. Think of the houses besides your own where you have a key to get in, or where you could walk in anytime. It is as if it were your own house. Mi casa su casa, Spanish speakers say. We are fortunate if we have those few special people in our lives in whose houses we feel completely at home. Oh, there are the places with warm welcomes where we are served coffee and cake, or tea and crumpets if that’s your preference (my youngest brother when he was a little kid loved tea and crumpets, although he mistakenly and hilariously said, “tea and strumpets”!) But then there are the places where we feel completely at home. We are not served coffee or tea; we get up and make it ourselves. We go to the refrigerator for a snack. We are more like family than friends in such places. What a blessing to be welcomed in such a way under someone’s roof!

In Matthew’s Gospel, we read the story of the Roman centurion who approached Jesus to ask healing for his servant. When Jesus indicated he would go to the man’s house, the centurion replied, “Lord, I am not worthy to have you enter under my roof; only say the word and my servant will be healed” (Matthew 8: 8). Jesus praised him for his faith and healed his servant. At Mass, we

Cardinal Jean Zerbo

use the centurion’s words, slightly modified, as our prayer in preparation to receive Holy Communion. The amazing thing, though, is that despite our unworthiness, Jesus does not heal us from afar, but chooses to come “under our roof.” With an intimacy that transcends any other that we know, Christ joins his own life to ours so that our humanity may share in his divinity!

The Irish lad may have wondered who would be crazy enough to welcome him and his friend under their roof, but we are left wondering an even more profound question. How is it that Christ, perfect and pure, spotless and sinless, all just and immaculate beyond imagining… how is it that Christ should be crazy enough to come “under the roof” of a sinner like me? How is it that God should take flesh to “pitch his tent among us” (the literal translation of John 1:14) and then become humbler still, condescending to become bread and wine so that God Almighty could “enter under our roof”? The mystery of God’s love is unfathomable!

“Cur Deus homo?” asked St. Anselm: “Why did God become human?” His answer was that God became human so that we humans could become one with God. This is one answer to the mystery of the Eucharist. Why does God “enter under our roof” in Holy Communion? It is so that we may “enter under God’s roof” in the life of the Trinity. “Lord I am not worthy to receive you,” we rightly say. Christ responds by making himself helpless to resist us. If we only want to receive him—the slightest weak response of love to Love Itself—He is always ready to “enter under our roof.” Though we are sinners, we did not “receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear.” It is the Spirit of love we received, and “There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear…” (1 John 4:18). Love bids us come, as the poet George Herbert indicated. At a friend’s house we feel like family. In the Spirit, we are made family: “we are children of God” because we “received a Spirit of adoption” allowing us to cry out “Abba, Father!” In the Eucharist, we are celebrating and preparing for our entry into the House of God, sacramentally being there already. By taking Him “under our roof” in love, He brings us “under the roof” of the Trinity, where we shall live in love forever.

Mary, Star of the Sea

Friends, on this note—our final union with God the Father, in Christ, by the power of the Spirit dwelling in us, a foretaste of which we have in the Eucharist—on this Trinity Sunday, I bid you all farewell. After more than two years of writing this blog, I have made the difficult decision to give it up in order to focus now on finishing my dissertation and earning my Ph.D. Your prayers for my success at the end of this doctoral journey are greatly appreciated. I pray for you as well, that your lives, like Mary our shining star who goes before us and guides us home, may be filled with the Spirit—a Spirit of love and not fear, open to God’s presence and grace in all people and in all of creation, and truly one with Christ, to the glory of God the Father. Amen.


Photo Credit for the soccer player (cropped): Olivier DONNARS/CIRIC

Photo Credit for Cardinal Zerbo of Mali: M.MIGLIORATO/CPP/CIRIC

Phot Credit for Mary, Star of the Sea: https://www.marystarhigh.com/about/mission.jsp


  • Angela
    Posted at 01:12h, 28 May

    Kevin, I have greatly enjoyed reading all of your reflections. Though I have not commented much, most of my thoughts were like this: “Wow! He is incredibly insightful!” I am going to miss reading your posts. Good luck and God bless you as you continue to write and work on finishing your dissertation. Thank you for everything that you have shared with us.! You have an amazing gift!

  • Rick C.
    Posted at 06:34h, 28 May

    Kevin, I am sorry to see you go, I have enjoyed reading your blog. You have a great gift of sharing and expressing your faith, I pray that this gift continue to grow and your ability to reach as wide of an audience as possible be exposed to your learning. Thank you again for visiting Atlanta in August of 2017 for our Catechist conference and I hope you may return in the near future. May God bless your endeavor.

    • Kevin Dowd
      Posted at 14:15h, 07 June

      Thank you, Rick. I hope to get back… and to get back to writing a blog… in 2019. We’ll see where the Spirit leads! Thanks for the kind words and the blessings!

  • Mark Hellman
    Posted at 08:46h, 28 May

    We often host Youth soccer coaches through Challenger Sports. We have been blessed to be able to do this for almost 10 years. We have had them from England, Scotland, Wales, and Ireland. Lots of fun and true blessings. First night I tell them we are going to watch a documentary about US music and how it applies to our culture. Cue The Blues Brothers! Lots of laughs.

    • Kevin Dowd
      Posted at 14:13h, 07 June

      Sounds like a lot of fun!

  • Joanne Rousculp
    Posted at 12:50h, 30 May

    Thank you Kevin for writing this wonderful blog. I have gained many insights reading them. God bless you as you work to complete your Ph.D.

    • Kevin Dowd
      Posted at 14:13h, 07 June

      Thank you, Joanne. I appreciate the kind words and blessings!